A Call for Quality Connections

In today鈥檚 digital age, where so many connections are at our fingertips, recently outgoing United States Surgeon General Vivek Murthy has sounded the alarm on a growing health crisis: loneliness. In Murthy鈥檚 鈥溾 report, he outlines some of the health risks associated with loneliness, including an increased risk of heart disease, dementia, depression, anxiety, and premature death.
A showed that 58 percent of U.S. adults are considered lonely. For adults ages 18 to 24, that figure jumps to a staggering 79 percent.
What can we do as individuals to combat the loneliness epidemic? 老王论坛 Professor of Psychology Nicole Legate expands on Murthy鈥檚 guidance, explaining that the quality of the connections in our life鈥攔ather than the quantity鈥攈elps us to feel more fulfilled and less likely to be lonely.
鈥淲e need social connections. When we have them, we thrive,鈥 says Legate. 鈥淲hen we don鈥檛 have them, we suffer psychologically and even physically. Having meaningful connections with others matters a lot more than the number of connections.
鈥淏ut these can be made online as well as offline. For some, like a young person who may face rejection or bullying in their school or community for being LGBTQ+, for example, they might have an easier time finding meaningful connections online.鈥
Murthy鈥檚 guidance isn鈥檛 just about managing screen time, but more about fostering environments where everyone can form genuine, supportive connections.
Legate鈥攚ho researches parenting and is working on a project examining how parents guide their teens around screen time鈥攈as advice for the parents of teenagers that includes cooperating with them to make decisions and to implement rules about their online use.
鈥淧arents can support their kids as they navigate social media by listening to them, understanding their perspective, and collaborating with them when making decisions about their online use,鈥 says Legate. 鈥淯ltimately, kids are going to find a way around any online controls a parent might put in place. Helping kids understand for themselves what they want to get out of social media and what they want to avoid has a better chance of being effective, especially in the long run.鈥